Anita Odili Blog

 Whew! What an unintended break… We live in an unkind world, filled with wickedness and hypocrisy. But as the higher animal it is mandatory to adapt and survive.  Zero value on the things that matter. As age matures the important things of life fades away. The little things that used to matter like good music, spending time with loved ones, showing genuine care etc are now seen as a waste of time. The 'woke' people of this generation lives, dresses and talks anyhow. No one cares.  It is important to protect the basic values we can give and earn as a human, in the end simplicity always wins.  Time has obviously evolved. The last time I picked up my pen to write, I didn't know my brothers and sisters were going to die at the hands of our dear government in 2020. Things has changed and a lot is happening at the same time. Small businesses has taken over social media which is good in a way. Life is happening all so fast. Speaking about social media, the unending drags ha...

  A lot of people are depressed/sad, finding it    difficult to feel free or happy because they don’t have money. From the time I have spent here on earth, I can tell you that if money is your problem then you are one lucky bastard. You’re so damn lucky!  Earlier this year I had a 'small' problem.. there was money, not too much money but it was enough to keep me comfortable. This problem didn’t bulge at the sight of the money that was present at that time, this problem came with great pain. I gave it away… what use was it when it couldn’t pay for ease and less pain?  Currently a lot of people are going through a lot physically, emotionally, maritally and all other "ally" there is.    I need you reading this to know and understand that nothing bad lasts forever especially what you’re feeling now. Don’t give up or give in to that situation that’s trying to drown you. The fact that you’re alive today is a huge opening to several life changing opportunitie...

Whether you are a book lover or not you won't be able to resist falling in love with this book series. I read The diamond throne:Book one of the Elenium back in 2010 and I couldn't resist the urge to read the others, the story is so magical and super relaxing...I won't say more that so you don't get any spoiler :). If you love Merlin, legend of the seeker or GOT then you have no excuse to not love this book. This is definitely a must read. Read and thank me later. BOOK ONE OF THE ELENIUM : THE DIAMOND THRONE. BOOK TWO OF THE ELENIUM : THE RUBY KNIGHT. BOOK THREE OF THE ELENIUM : THE SAPPHIRE ROSE .

Who else has flipped through the pages of this book? If you haven't please don't. No offence intended. So I started reading this book months ago out of curiousity  and I managed to read just 69 pages before deciding it wasn't worth it. Why would someone write a book encouraging women to act like a bitch or have a stony character just so a man can love you? Truth is men sometimes like women who acts like an untouchable jewel. It's ok to be demanding or act like a boss, but when it has to do with a relationship..a healthy relationship acting like a bitch is just not the way. Before you pick up this book to read please note there's no manual to understanding any man, you shouldn't have a certain character to win a man over. Men fall for looks first before falling for any other thing. So this woman's guide to holding her own relationship is a NO for me. What do you think?

Source: Unknown I got myself this fine hunk for Christmas, he let's me touch his beards and gives me back rubs in return. He is my best friend...my bestie. I'm starting to fall in love but there is one small issue. He is married. Chris visited on new year's day, I couldn't help myself, I asked him for sex and he gave it to me passionately. He told me it was just what it was...sex. He said he couldn't give more than that. He loves his wife dearly. I'm hurt. If I can't have him, no one will. I wore my darkest makeup and made my way to his home. One small fire, I watched the house burn to the ground. Chris has become ashes. I miss him..... A/N : Staring at nothing inspired me to write this, I hope you enjoy it ☺️

Hey guys, if you are just joining the wagon, I will link below the first and second parts of the story. UNFAZED I UNFAZED II ****************************** I knew I couldn't continue to punish my self as it would only damage me, all of this wouldn't have happened if I wasn't trying to make friends that lived around. Aunty Karis and her husband were kind enough to make sure i had a proper bath and prepared bowls of food. Their home was so full of love, it was nothing compared to mine where all we did was forcefully please each other. ‘Nne, hope you are feeling better now', Aunty Karis asked. ‘Yes Aunty, thank you', I replied. ‘We are very sorry about what happened to you, boys like that shouldn't be allowed to move around freely', Uncle Ndu Said. ‘He can't go scot-free, God will surely fight for you. The system continues to fail us , sometimes I think it is a waste of time going to them. It would only traumatize you', Aunty Karis ...

Hey lovelies, Clearly this is not an update on UNFAZED ( currently working on that) as I have been busy thinking of ideas that can make me and you flourish.  In the picture above is a product that was handmade by me to help the hair grow and stay nourished, it can be used on both relaxed and natural hair (men and women). Formulated to strengthen the hair follicles reduce breakage, grow edges and soften the hair , you can't go wrong with this. To order kindly send a message/WhatsApp or call +2347088100738. Instagram :  Neethah.Naturals Facebook :  Neethah Naturals CHEBE BUTTER  So I have been doing a lot of research about chebe powder, originally from Chad and I have successfully made my own chebe butter which I'm currently testing on my hair. Until I'm super sure of it , i will then release it to the world. I always forget to take pictures so documenting my journey is a struggle for me. Regardless I will keep you guys updated. Kisses Xx P.S : if yo...

*********** At first it was hard trying to see in the dark, gradually my eyes adjusted to the darkness. As I made my way through the streets i began to wonder if the people outside knew how late it was to be so busy outside, but then again this is Lagos, a city that never sleeps. I was really tired, I found an abandoned store. The ugly stench of urine and cigarettes greeted me, the area was dimly lit. I managed to find a ‘clean' place to stay for the night, the mosquitoes were not welcoming. I should package this day and tag it broken and discomforted. Crushed, hungry and alone , crying seemed to be the only option. I cried until I fell asleep. It was very bright by the time I woke up, confused on where to go or what to do, I sat for a while. Crying wasn't going to solve my problem, I wondered what was going on at home, the thought of going back home made chills run down my spine. I was sure Going back would be the death of me. I walked with hope I would find something t...

THE BEGINNING The kerosene had finished in the stove and there was no reserve, just after mum had finished preparing breakfast. School wasn't on session and I wished I had friends to visit as I was always indoors and going out was practically a taboo in our home. “Take one thousand from my wardrobe, buy kerosene with it", Dad said, bringing me back from my very short trip to space. I hurriedly left to take the money, mischievously I thought about buying kerosene 800 instead of 1000. Somehow I managed to get away with most of my silly acts. After washing the dishes and cleaning the table, I took the kerosene keg, an old groundnut oil keg that was washed clean and converted to a kerosene keg. It was past eleven, i had to hurry so we would make lunch on time. The walk from the house to the petrol station was a short but lonely one. The road was rarely used and there was three other roads to use. ‘Give me kerosene 800' I told the attendant. A familiar face walke...

I was going through the explore page on Instagram, seeing lots of beautiful pictures, pictures of your favorite celebs here and there and almost all our celebrities are getting curvy miraculously, maybe that is what happens when you become a celeb...or am I wrong? Their 'new looks' is definitely going to mess with majority of their Fan's minds, especially young females who look up to them. Truth is a curvy woman is typically attractive to the ordinary eye, lots of vendors are out there selling creams and pills, just to satisfy bodily cravings, claiming they make you look curvy and all. Very few of them may work, while others won't. Other's who have money  get surgery or really expensive injections to achieve the look of their dreams. If you invest time and money into these things, you won't have enough time to discover your true self. Jokes apart it's a trend that is getting quite irritating, it just shows almost all celebs are very insecure about som...

Toke Makinwa,media personality who has been all about chasing the bag recently launched a skincare line, TMglow. She has obviously been winning big after a messy scandal back in 2015. TMglow The media personality who is currently not in the country has gotten social media buzzing with her recent posts. She recently posted a braless photo on her Instagram page and her fans had a lot to say to her. See photo below; Earlier this week she posted new photos debuting her new body, although she has not responded to claims she went under the knife, she has not denied them either. New photos shows a curvier and sexier Toke Makinwa, fellas are we for this new look or not? See photos and comments from her fans below; This is what she looked like before; Either way she's still beautiful!

In this wonderful era of 'men are scum', 'women are bitches' , 'we are all scums' , we fail to notice the time wasters. Whenever he/she comes fully packaged, looking perfect, we jump right into a relationship with hope you two might just turn out to be 'social media goals' and hop out seconds later turning into motivational/inspirational speakers and pointing out the scums and trashes. This is why evaluation remains important. Assess yourself, do sums, list reasons why. Don't let people's relationships define yours, don't expect your woman to be Beyonce or expect your man to be Jay z. You have no idea what their relationship is like, they will only show you what they want you to see. People are dating the idea of what their partner could become - Rihanna  When in any kind of relationship you should make sure you're a matured person dealing with another matured human. There are so many failed relationships in our society toda...

Firstly, majority of 'best friends' wants what you have. Before you decide to crucify me; there are several friendships that has lasted for years and it is so because one of you thinks like a man. A typical friendship may not last for long because women generally don't have best friends, they befriend their Competitors. That is why you see pretty girls are always grouped together, fat girls together, skinny girls together, rich girls together etc. You're competitor is definitely going to go after the same thing you want or have. For example; I have a hair or shoe worth 20k, my 'best friend' would do everything to get the same thing. That is not friendship, it is competition. Once/if they have the opportunity they'll take it. Keep in mind this is a business world, almost every one is doing something for their own selfish interest and gain.

I knew it was a joke right from day one. I mean...it was so obvious! My instinct has never failed me. It was ritual for me not to get too involved with someone until I get to know whoever deeply, but this time around I let my guard down. Its hard to judge a book by its cover you know. I used to build walls and burn bridges, I wanted it to be just ME! I couldn't stand the thought of someone coming to fill me up and then leave like nothing happened. I LEARNED!. I decided to live in the  moment, enjoy it while it lasted, feel as long as I could. But it wasn't enough. I wanted something real, something I could hold on to..... I started digging the past, it felt so wrong. I stopped. Believe me it HURTS. Then I realized its Ok to feel...everything if possible. I said to myself, cry if you want to, laugh, hate, love , just feel. You'll be fine. But there's only one thing to do, you either make or fool yourself. No one truly cares about you, so care for yourself. ...

Dark circles can result from lack of sleep dehydration, stress, vitamin deficiency or genetics. Dark circles can mess up someone's appearance, and most women prefer to use concealers to cover up the unattractive look. But men barely have an option. Why hide them when you can get rid of them? Before you reached for OTC products check your kitchen first. Below are home remedies that can be used to treat this problem; Tea bags: it has been proven to reduce dark circles without any side effects. Put two tea bags in a cup of hot water for five minutes; squeeze the bags to remove liquid; place in a refrigerator or cool water for about 10-15 minutes; lie down and place the chilled bags on eyes,leave on for 10mins; rinse face with cool water; repeat 2-3 times daily. Coconut oil: it is a gentle inflammatory, it is an effective method of lightening dark circles. Rub oil onto your under eye area; leave on overnight and rinse off in the morning. Cucumber:   it has skin lighteni...

Y'all know twitter is one of the hottest social media app right now, where people tweet their thoughts and lots of other information. From my experience Twitter is therapeutic. So you might want to join the moving train. I have compiled ten amazing accounts to follow on Twitter, without wasting too much time, here are the top ten people to follow; WARNING: If you can't handle sarcasm, you might want to hesitate before creating an account. @segalink @burmese_tyga @badt_BOI_ @kelvinodanz @the_nenye @olisaosega @shawnife_ @drolufunmilayo @mrakinbosola @rouvafe Click  Here  to login or sign up.

I heard there's this flu that has been flying around. So many young girls catch this flu due to unseen pressure especially when they are 23/24.....it's the pressure to get married. I know somehow who became distressed because of this flu. Once a girl finishes school, the next thing on her list is husband. See marriage is a really beautiful thing but if you're not careful, you will get trapped. Society has made so many young girls feel breathless once they haven't introduced a man before the age of 25. Many are not bothered while some actually exist for the sole purpose of getting married. Let me tell you some of the reasons why girls may be so desperate to get married; 1. Financial security: honestly only a very lazy woman would want to get married for financial reasons. What happened to making your own money? No matter how little. Having your own money secures a special kind of respect from people around you. 2.Accommodation : Yes, I said it. There are lots ...

Let's discuss. I think this is actually a sad reality , But I believe whoever is coming next will be better. Let's get interactive, drop your opinions in the comment box below ❤

Rarely a day goes by that we are not confronted by advertisements for vagina-related hygiene products. They are presented as goods that can make your vag cleaner than it was yesterday and scent better, sold in packages covered in flowered designs and girly colours. One thing you should know is, the vagina cleanses itself, so avoid using soaps and other products to clean her, many of these vagina centered hygiene products may actually not be good for our vagina at all. DOUCHES There's no circumstance that calls for you cleaning your Lady part with a vaginal douche. Douches leaves your PH whack and mess up the natural mixture of good bacteria in your bag, so you're at a much higher risk of getting a yeast infection if you use them. And there are more serious risks too , using douches increases your likelihood of contracting pelvic inflammatory disease by a whopping 73%. Douching might even be linked to lowering fertility. Your vagina does a real good job at keeping itse...

I love good jokes, everyone does, Laughing is one of the best ways to ease stress and stay healthy. Are you stressed, feeling depressed or in a bad mood? I have put together few jokes just for you! * Tonight I dreamt of a beautiful walk on a sandy beach. At least that explains the footprints I fought in the cat litter box this morning. * A newly married couple brought a female house help from the village to assist in keeping their home tidy, so they would have time for their careers and other things. One day, oga decided to give his wife a surprise package. He moulded a big heart (to represent love) with the assistance of the house help, a project which took almost the whole day. Madam came back to meet the house help sleeping and snoring: MADAM: will you get up! Stupid girl! What have you been doing since morning? HOUSE HELP: Madam welcome, no vex abeg. Me and oga dey make love since morning. Na just now now we finish he say make I lie down small. The house help is now ...