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  A lot of people are depressed/sad, finding it    difficult to feel free or happy because they don’t have money. From the time I have spent here on earth, I can tell you that if money is your problem then you are one lucky bastard. You’re so damn lucky!  Earlier this year I had a 'small' problem.. there was money, not too much money but it was enough to keep me comfortable. This problem didn’t bulge at the sight of the money that was present at that time, this problem came with great pain. I gave it away… what use was it when it couldn’t pay for ease and less pain?  Currently a lot of people are going through a lot physically, emotionally, maritally and all other "ally" there is.    I need you reading this to know and understand that nothing bad lasts forever especially what you’re feeling now. Don’t give up or give in to that situation that’s trying to drown you. The fact that you’re alive today is a huge opening to several life changing opportunitie...

Whether you are a book lover or not you won't be able to resist falling in love with this book series. I read The diamond throne:Book one of the Elenium back in 2010 and I couldn't resist the urge to read the others, the story is so magical and super relaxing...I won't say more that so you don't get any spoiler :). If you love Merlin, legend of the seeker or GOT then you have no excuse to not love this book. This is definitely a must read. Read and thank me later. BOOK ONE OF THE ELENIUM : THE DIAMOND THRONE. BOOK TWO OF THE ELENIUM : THE RUBY KNIGHT. BOOK THREE OF THE ELENIUM : THE SAPPHIRE ROSE .

Who else has flipped through the pages of this book? If you haven't please don't. No offence intended. So I started reading this book months ago out of curiousity  and I managed to read just 69 pages before deciding it wasn't worth it. Why would someone write a book encouraging women to act like a bitch or have a stony character just so a man can love you? Truth is men sometimes like women who acts like an untouchable jewel. It's ok to be demanding or act like a boss, but when it has to do with a relationship..a healthy relationship acting like a bitch is just not the way. Before you pick up this book to read please note there's no manual to understanding any man, you shouldn't have a certain character to win a man over. Men fall for looks first before falling for any other thing. So this woman's guide to holding her own relationship is a NO for me. What do you think?

Source: Unknown I got myself this fine hunk for Christmas, he let's me touch his beards and gives me back rubs in return. He is my best friend...my bestie. I'm starting to fall in love but there is one small issue. He is married. Chris visited on new year's day, I couldn't help myself, I asked him for sex and he gave it to me passionately. He told me it was just what it was...sex. He said he couldn't give more than that. He loves his wife dearly. I'm hurt. If I can't have him, no one will. I wore my darkest makeup and made my way to his home. One small fire, I watched the house burn to the ground. Chris has become ashes. I miss him..... A/N : Staring at nothing inspired me to write this, I hope you enjoy it ☺️

Hey guys, if you are just joining the wagon, I will link below the first and second parts of the story. UNFAZED I UNFAZED II ****************************** I knew I couldn't continue to punish my self as it would only damage me, all of this wouldn't have happened if I wasn't trying to make friends that lived around. Aunty Karis and her husband were kind enough to make sure i had a proper bath and prepared bowls of food. Their home was so full of love, it was nothing compared to mine where all we did was forcefully please each other. ‘Nne, hope you are feeling better now', Aunty Karis asked. ‘Yes Aunty, thank you', I replied. ‘We are very sorry about what happened to you, boys like that shouldn't be allowed to move around freely', Uncle Ndu Said. ‘He can't go scot-free, God will surely fight for you. The system continues to fail us , sometimes I think it is a waste of time going to them. It would only traumatize you', Aunty Karis ...

Hey lovelies, Clearly this is not an update on UNFAZED ( currently working on that) as I have been busy thinking of ideas that can make me and you flourish.  In the picture above is a product that was handmade by me to help the hair grow and stay nourished, it can be used on both relaxed and natural hair (men and women). Formulated to strengthen the hair follicles reduce breakage, grow edges and soften the hair , you can't go wrong with this. To order kindly send a message/WhatsApp or call +2347088100738. Instagram :  Neethah.Naturals Facebook :  Neethah Naturals CHEBE BUTTER  So I have been doing a lot of research about chebe powder, originally from Chad and I have successfully made my own chebe butter which I'm currently testing on my hair. Until I'm super sure of it , i will then release it to the world. I always forget to take pictures so documenting my journey is a struggle for me. Regardless I will keep you guys updated. Kisses Xx P.S : if yo...

*********** At first it was hard trying to see in the dark, gradually my eyes adjusted to the darkness. As I made my way through the streets i began to wonder if the people outside knew how late it was to be so busy outside, but then again this is Lagos, a city that never sleeps. I was really tired, I found an abandoned store. The ugly stench of urine and cigarettes greeted me, the area was dimly lit. I managed to find a ‘clean' place to stay for the night, the mosquitoes were not welcoming. I should package this day and tag it broken and discomforted. Crushed, hungry and alone , crying seemed to be the only option. I cried until I fell asleep. It was very bright by the time I woke up, confused on where to go or what to do, I sat for a while. Crying wasn't going to solve my problem, I wondered what was going on at home, the thought of going back home made chills run down my spine. I was sure Going back would be the death of me. I walked with hope I would find something t...